Why me or try me!!!
Every second, a star
explodes and a new star takes birth. The Universe, the Solar system and the
Earth are very big words for people like us who think very meagre. The
sprinting world has become so overwhelming about the materialistic changes and developments
that we people have forgotten to keep a check on what’s truly happening with
us. Among those dreadful horrors of miseries, a particular character of us
stands out like a joker face popping out of a surprise box. It’s something we
ask ourselves and later pass the burden over to the God that we believe in…
“WHY ME???”
A new place in your life introduces
you to new people, new culture and new gatherings until you leave the place.
You hop, dance and enjoy to the fullest with those people around you and fill
your memories with good ones as well as bad ones. This is where you feel people
around you are the ones who support you and stay with you. After a while the
time comes for you to leave and move to a new place and there starts a new
enthusiasm about the unexplored views. You settle down, you gear up and you start
your life afresh. But somewhere in-between the journey, you start to feel the
void in your close circle thinking that the people who stood by you aren’t the
same now. You start to feel they have changed and you start to expect more and
more every day.
There end the thoughts….
Yes. Now what happens
next is important but why it might have happened is also very important. A
person who has adjusted to a place for a very long time has got people who have
better understanding of who you are and they treat you likewise. But the new
place requires you to work towards socializing with the new people.
A person who dwells in
the past about his happiness and serenity will never find the same in a place
where he resides now. You don’t need people to recognize you, you don’t need
people to just know you. Instead, you want people to understand you and make
time to stand in your shoes when required. For this to happen you cannot just
sit in a place and wait for miracles to happen. Miracles happen for those who
step in and move forward. Success and prosperity seem to be more possessive
than what we think. You spare your time to the success building and so will the
success look towards you. Create a happy atmosphere around you whereby you can
feel your own happiness.
There is a very strong
saying which I feel should be in every person’s mind because it speaks a
greater secret that could lighten our minds.
“Pain is Inevitable but Suffering
is a Choice”
Why me? – is what pops
out here. Every single day we are bound to face one or the other obstacle. We
are pushed into hurdles and barriers. While these may seem tiring, hurting and
killing you – there is one thing we need to remember. Every person on this
earth whoever it may be, a person beside you or a person sitting on a golden
throne – every one of them faces the hurdles. The only difference between a
happy man and a sad man is that the former person stays above the guilt, regret
and the suffering. Whereas the latter person dwells in the past so much so that
he fails to see what’s beautiful in front of him today.
A man who understands life to be more than a
puppet in this materialistic world is the one who uses the energy of pain and
suffering to channelize it into a beautiful cause. This may seem unrealistic
for all of us who enjoy the rewards from this world.
Try me!!! Every
time you face a hurdle, every time you feel low or every time you blame yourself
for the things happening around – remind yourself of a better way to talk to yourself.
Say “Try me” rather than “Why me?”.
What big can happen from
just saying it???
When you expect changes immediately
and long for rewards in every action – then is when you are falling into the
trap of what I call as “Rise for Reward”. It is a dark place inside us
where our mind lightens up only with a reward or a promise for reward and I can
guarantee you that this feeling is something disastrous. So, when you are
feeling low and you say yourself “TRY ME!” – don’t think of anything ahead
instead remember that you are building yourself for a better version of yourself
day by day.
Don’t stop there, be a
little ambitious. The pain has also got an offer to make for you every time you
receive one. Its something like a reward coupon that you get freely but fail to
retrieve it before it expires. Does anyone reading this article have felt that
everything is happening according to you???
Has anyone felt that
whatever we are feeling and whatever we are aspiring is becoming true? There
seems to be a solid connection between how you take-in the pain and how you
convert it into an opportunity. It’s a complicated
riddle and if it were so simple then every one would have been happy every time.
But for now, let’s keep cracking those codes by ourselves…
But till then we could be
humble enough to understand that when it is possible in somedays in your own
life, why can’t it be true every day???
Its all about you…